The main benefit of traveling solo
is the ease at which you can meet people. The biggest pain of traveling solo is
actually traveling. Generally speaking, no one, on a long bus ride, wants to
have a conversation, especially not me. This leaves for a lot of alone time
missing the place you just left and anxiously awaiting the adventures of the next.
But, anxiously awaiting the next adventure requires an answer to the question:
Where is the next adventure?
The problem with having no set
plans is the difficulty in making decisions. My only goal for this trip was to
head north. But, when you meet a group of cool people who are going south, that
one, very simple plan can go out the window quite seamlessly. My California friends,
who I joined at Machu Picchu, were headed south to Lake Titicaca and Bolivia. Looking
back, the only reason that kept me from entering the otherwise extremely
affordable country was their $135 entrance tax. That and it was in the opposite
direction of my intended path. But, the decision was made: continue north as
per design.
So, I booked a 21 hour bus from
Cuzco to Lima. Upon saying my goodbyes in Cuzco, a wave of anxiety rushed over
me. It is an anxiety completely unique to traveling, one that I have only felt maybe
once or twice before. It is a feeling of uneasiness saying, “Why the hell are
you leaving?” I have learned that it takes a special place to warrant this
feeling. But, with a bus ticket in hand and new adventures on the horizon, I
push past the angst and voyage on.
And 21 hours in a bus is definitely
a voyage. Normally very nice buses, that are typically too cold for comfort (a
lesson learned on my bus to Cuzco), I don a down jacket and long pants. But, these
preparations never became necessary as the bus’s air conditioning turned out to
be broken. So, with no method of air circulation, the bus quickly transforms
into a sauna. The heat is not extreme, just extremely uncomfortable: a
constant, slow, sweat. With no water to replenish my system, I eventually stop
sweating (the human body definitely cannot hold enough liquid for a 21 hour
sweat session). I’m making this journey out to be worse than it actually was,
but instead of pushing on through Lima to my next destination, I take a night
to recuperate and rinse off the stench.
Also in my stop to Lima, I come to
find out a good friend from university swapped places with me. She left Lima
for Cuzco the same morning I arrived in Lima, further adding to my departure
anxiety. We haven’t seen each other since graduation and this marks the second
continent that we have failed to meet up while traveling. Maybe with some
planning and better communication, we can make it happen on the next continent,
Sarah.